The Lord Is Not Your Husband

From the author of:

‘The Family In The Car A Revelation”

The Lord Is Not Your Husband

Lord yes, Lover no

Coming Spring, 2009!

Placed in human beings are the needs and desires necessary for reproduction. Along with these natural desires, comes personal gratification, as well as, pleasure. All of these are important to the continuance of the life cycle. Without them, humanity would become extinct. Someone once said that they believed God purposely made sex pleasurable so that procreation would come with ease and there would be no problem in keeping the world populated. As you can see, the world does not have that problem, whatsoever.

It is completely normal for women to have desires to be loved physically. Women are physical beings with fleshly needs. For so long, the church has made it taboo for a woman to embrace those physical needs, wants and desires, as if they were types of diseases of some sort. Women have felt the isolation that came with the forbidden, especially the single women.

Why has the church continued to propel this false ideology that God was a woman’s all in all and if they had Jesus, it was enough? Why hasn’t the church come forth in a greater force to make an effort in the liberation of these females? How can a fleshly need such sexual satisfaction be met in something spiritual and sacred? God is a spirit and people are flesh.

No matter how many times they repeat “Devil you are a liar” and “Get thee behind me Satan”, the needs are still there. Women are walking around wondering what’s wrong with them. With all the rebuking and binding, they can’t seem to get rid of those sinful, nasty desires. Why?

Women have suffered long enough; from self hatred and not feeling good enough, some even to the point of annihilation. Stop asking that your internal desires be removed and just accept the fact that you are wonderfully and marvelously made.

It’s Time You Set Yourself Free!

 

Copyright (c) 2009

All Rights Reserved

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai

CEO, Favor Blooms, LLC

Board, United Black Writers Association

www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com

www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

ISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7

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Just A Four Letter Word

JUST A FOUR LETTER WORD

Just a four letter word with powerful meaning

Something to hang onto when there is no rope left

Nothing tangible, nothing you can touch

Yet we cling to it, some for dear life

REALLY!

HOPE, the little four letter word

It has kept many holding on to it,

When there was no reason to trust its magic,

Nor its ability to keep them from falling

Can’t imagine the multitude of folk who depend on its ability to deliver

What would it be like without HOPE?

What would happen if it had an expiration date?

No doubt, a thunderous sound there would be

As those who were holding on, hanging on, to the last miniscule of a thread

EXPECTATIONS!

HOPING FOR THE BEST!

Now in mid-air with nothing left to hold onto –

THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP,
THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP…

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai
© 2008
(Author of: The Family In The Car, A Revelation)
www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com
www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar
ISBN 978-1-58909-485-7

Henrietta Hughes

Greetings,

This is Brenda Farrar-Ejemai, author of the book, The Family In The Car, A Revelation.

This documentary tells the struggles of a family surviving on the streets of New York City, while living in their car.

Henrietta Hughes made an emotional plea for help from President Obama, in Fort Myers, Florida, because she was homeless and living in her small car with her family.

After this media event, in front of millions of people, this now epidemic will get the attention that it is due.

The face of the homeless is changing rapidly.

If you would like further information about this topic, you may contact me at: familyinthecar@yahoo.com.

Thank you.

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai
CEO, Favor Blooms, LLC
Board, United Black Writers Association
www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com
www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

The Family In The Car, A Revelation
ISBN 978-1-58909-485-7
http://www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com
http://www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar
“Be Sure To Notice When You’re Happy”

Just a Four Letter Word

 

Just a four letter word with powerful meaning

 

Something to hang onto when there is no rope left

 

Nothing tangible, nothing you can touch

 

Yet we cling to it, some for dear life

 

REALLY!

 

HOPE, the little four letter word

 

It has kept many holding on to it,

 

When there was no reason to trust its magic,

 

Nor its ability to keep them from falling

 

Can’t imagine the multitude of folk who depend on its ability to deliver

 

What would it be like without HOPE?

 

What would happen if it had an expiration date?

 

No doubt, a thunderous sound there would be

 

As those who were holding on, hanging on, to the last miniscule of a thread

 

EXPECTATIONS!

 

HOPING FOR THE BEST!

 

Now in mid-air with nothing left to hold onto –

 

 

THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP,

THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP, THUMP…

 

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai

© 2008

(Author of:  The Family In The Car, A Revelation)

www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com

www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

ISBN 978-1-58909-485-7

HANG UP THE PHONE!

 

10 to 15 years ago, the number of people who owned a cell phone was much less than it is today.

 

I can remember having a cell phone when many people didn’t.  However, post-9/11 has made having a cell a necessity. I know this is true, being a person born and raised in New York City.

 

Cell phones should be used while driving only in the case of emergencies.  They should be used with hands-free devices such as earpieces or Bluetooth equipment.  There should never be a time when a driver is holding a cell phone and talking for extended periods of time. 

 

If calls are received while driving that are not emergencies, the driver should offer to return the calls later or have their cell on vibrate and listen to messages at a later time.

 

I was shocked at the number of people using cell phones while driving in the state of Maryland.  I have seen people laughing and enjoying calls as if they were sitting on a sofa in their living rooms.

 

What is going on here?  What could be on people’s minds?  What could convince them that driving is the ideal time to talk on the phone?  Must I be involved in this scene?  Must my family?

 

I draw the conclusion that people don’t give a hoot about me or my family.  I can’t speak for anyone else; I can only speak for myself.

 

I don’t want to look in my rear view mirror and see someone grinning and talking on a phone, while driving behind me.  I am on the road to reach my destination safe and sound.

 

I am not performing on a stage.  I am living real life.  There are no second or third takes in case of mistakes.

 

The tragedy of this is that others become the victims of these people’s careless mind-set.  Is this fair?  No. It’s not fair for someone to think that they have the right to injure or take the life of another.  The nerve of them!

 

My question is what are the lawmakers doing or going to do about this increasing, dangerous situation on Maryland’s roads?

 

What is it going to take to come down on this?

 

Who else is noticing this situation?  Is there anyone else out there, or is it only me?

 

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai

CEO, Favor Blooms, LLC

(Author of:  The Family In The Car, A Revelation)

www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com

www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

www.ebookstand/Books.grp/BR2191.html

ISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7

 

Press Release – The Long-Awaited Documentary/Book – The Family In The Car, A Revelation, IS NOW AVAILABLE!

                                          For Immediate Release

 

Contact Information: 

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai                                  

 

E-Mail:  favorblooms@thefamilyinthecar.com

 

A SHELTER IN THE TIME OF STORM

 Author Releases Documentary after 4  Years

 

Columbia, MD-June 23, 2008-

Well-known author, Brenda Farrar-Ejemai reveals, what was at first anonymously written, a documentary that records her experience in New York City over 17 years ago.  Faced with the unexpected trauma of homelessness, her struggle began. 

 

THE FAMILY IN THE CAR, A Revelation, which the author describes as “on-time”, time-lines the journey of this struggle.  It shows how members of a family who were all their lives sheltered, as well as privileged, now were without.  “The trauma was so unbelievable, I felt that period in my life was a dream and not actually lived,” Ejemai said.    Although it was written in 2004, the author felt led to release it in 2008 and reveal the true characters in the documentary.  It is impacted with trials, but ends with triumph.   This documentary will not only encourage, but will inspire those who are experiencing or have experienced this trauma. 

 

There are a number of middle class Americans living secretly homeless today.  

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai has taken a leap-of-faith in the writing of this documentary.  With the rise in foreclosures in the United States today, this documentary is not only timely, but relevant.  The face of the homeless is changing rapidly.  No longer can the homeless be viewed only as the poor, criminals or mentally ill.  Homelessness is involving the middle class as well.

 

“This is a story that all Americans should read and see. 

…informational, educational and compelling.” 

Donald L. Vasicek, Producer,

Olympus Films +

www.donvasicek.com

A DOCUMENTARY FOR OUR TIME

 

# # #

If you would like more information about the documentary, The Family In The Car, A Revelation or to schedule an interview with Brenda Farrar-Ejemai, please contact: familyinthecar@yahoo.com

Favor Blooms, LLC, P.O. Box 765, Columbia, Maryland  21045. 

 

www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com, www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar

www.ebookstand.com/books.grp/BR2191.html  

ISBN: 978-1-58909-485-7

Available on Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com, Alibris.com

 

 

THE GOAL

 

 

 

 

          It’s like reaching for something far away.  If you keep on reaching and running without stopping, you will obtain what you are reaching for.  Persevering, not quitting, but going after it with all your might, as though you have to have it; that’s the driving force.  Don’t look at time

as a barrier.   Look at it this way, the years are going to pass anyway, so why not accomplish what you wish.

 

          The battle starts in your mind, that’s where it is.  It is a war between your spirit and your mind. (Your mind being your common sense)  Once your mind is working in cooperation with your spirit, the struggle ceases.

 

          It is almost like going down a long tunnel.  You don’t see anything on your right or on your left.  You only focus on what’s straight ahead. 

 

You are determined to get to the end of the tunnel because at the end of the tunnel the light appears.  The sun looks like the dawning of a new day, with new opportunities.  Nothing distracts you; you are staying on course. 

         

          The word procrastination is not a part of your vocabulary.  Most of the time that is the problem, people don’t act.  Whatever needs to be done should be completed and taken care of in a timely manner.   As a matter of fact, it should be done before the required time to make sure there are no slip-ups.

 

          Some people would say, “I’ll start when the kids grow-up, or when I attain a certain amount of money”.  “I’m too old, or I will wait 2,5,10 years from now”.  Well, those years are going to come and go and then you will think about the things that you could have accomplished but didn’t.  Why not look back and be able to say you have attained your goal and dream.

 

          Another way is to go at it one day at a time.  Instead of looking at it as a long haul, look at it as taking little leaps. 

You will be surprised at how, in time, you will be closer to your goal.

 

          You must understand that no one else controls your destiny.  A lot of times people confide in others and ask their opinion on what they should do.  The person or persons they confide in may not have any ambition to succeed, and jealousy steps in.  They discourage and cause them to remain immobile.  Stay away from those types of people.  As soon as discouragement is thrown at you, throw it back.  Don’t allow it to seep into your thinking and bring back the battle in your mind. 

 

          Success is determined by your actions not anyone else’s.

 

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai

ã 1998

(Author of:  The Family In The Car, A Revelation)

 WWW.TheFamilyInTheCar.com

ISBN:978-1-58909-485-7

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A ROLLER COASTER RIDE-A Comparison Poem

A ROLLER COASTER RIDE

 

 

Up and down, up and down

 

It’s the pull of gravity isn’t it?

 

You’re down longer than you’re up

 

Isaac said it best

 

It’s easier going up

 

Slow, steady

 

But coming down is frightful

 

Fast, quick

 

No time to prepare

 

Up and down, up and down

 

The unsteadiness is making you sick 

 

You’re screaming

 

It’s uncomfortable

 

You wanna get off

 

But you can’t (you know what I mean?)

 

There’s no where to go

 

YOU HAVE TO RIDE IT OUT!

 

 

Copyright © 2008

Brenda Farrar-Ejemai

CEO, Favor Blooms, LLC

http://www.TheFamilyInTheCar.com

ISBN: 978-1-58909-475-7

trailer: www.youtube.com/thefamilyinthecar